Shirley Jacobson, born on September 11, 1952, in Monroe, Michigan, passed away peacefully on February 8th, at the age of 72 in Evart, Michigan. A devoted daughter to Jesse and Jane Hyden. A cherished sister to Phillip Hyden Sr. and Roger Hyden. All of whom have predeceased Shirl. Shirl was known for her deep bond with her father, closeness with her mother, and her unwavering love for her brothers. Shirl is predeceased by her late husband, Howard Vallade and late partner, Edward Charlie Beers.

Shirl is survived by her beloved companion, Tim. Shirl's branch of the tree and legacy include: her daughter, Janie Durban; son, Charlie Edward Beers; grandchildren, (Janie's) Dana Webb, Daniel Durban, Jessica Dalton, and (Charlie's) Caitlin Elizabeth Beers; great grandchildren, (Dana's) Zander, Bentley, Joshua, Ziggy, (Daniel's) Koda, and (Caitlin's) Trenton.

Shirl graduated from Monroe High School in 1970. She worked at various places; including the Evart Corner Store, Flach's, Clay's, Evart Products, and Mark IV. Aside from work, Shirl's passion for sewing has always been evident in the countless handmade dish towels and pot holders she lovingly crafted for her family and friends. We all know Shirl's Heaven is just one giant sewing room.

Shirl was known for her straightforwardness; she always said what she meant and meant what she said. You never had to wonder what she thought about you. She kept everyone in line and in the next second she'd be charming you with her wit and warmth. She had us all wrapped around her finger.

Shirl also had a spirited side. She loved talking about her red 1973 Cuda and how she was really "hot stuff in that thing." On one occasion, when her granddaughter, Dana, couldn't stop hiccuping, Shirl pretended to have a heart attack to scare the hiccups away...and of course it worked, a calculated "troublemaker."

Shirl kept an open door policy. She never turned anyone away who needed a helping hand, even if she didn't have it to give, she'd find a way to help. Embodying the true definition of a matriarch, she was always motivating her loved ones to strive for more, to strive for the future she knew they deserved. Her strength, perseverance, and wisdom seemed boundless. It's no surprise she earned the title of cancer survivor.

An ardent animal lover, Shirl's dogs, Abigale and Sassy, were her constant companions, bringing her immense joy and comfort. With each hospital stay, they were her drive to get better and get home as expeditiously as possible. Her affection for animals wasn't exclusive to canines though. Years ago, she cared for two pet monkeys, Mike and Jan, she'd dress up in doll clothes. Just less than a month ago, she was trying to convince us to find her another monkey to care for. We're willing to bet ALL of Shirl's pets who passed away before her were knocking people over to greet her first at the Pearly Gates.

In her leisure time, Shirl loved reminiscing over her photo albums, cherishing the memories captured within. Shirl was immensely proud of her son, Charlie, and would share his accomplishments with anyone who would listen. She maintained a close relationship with her daughter, Janie. She enjoyed talking to her kids and grandkids on the phone every chance she could. Despite the distance with Jessica, Shirl’s “PeeWee," and Daniel living in Florida, she would talk to them almost every day. Hearing their voices kept her smiling. She was always proving that distance could never diminish her love and dedication to her family.

Her beloved companion and best friend, Tim, will feel her absence profoundly. Together, they shared a love of cooking, delighting family and friends with their culinary creations and ensuring no one left their table hungry. Tim demonstrated his unwavering love by tending to Shirl's every need with devotion & care every single day and being by her side until her last breath.

Shirl's legacy of love and devotion to her family and animals will forever remain in the hearts of those who knew her and boy are we privileged and better for knowing her. There really is nothing like a mother. The glue. The backbone. The massive hole in our hearts is dwarfed by the love she gave us throughout her time here on Earth. She will live on through us in all the ways she's shaped us. Until we meet again, we love you, Shirl.

A memorial service to celebrate Shirl's life was held at 12pm (Noon) on the 15th of February, 2025 at Sacred Heart Catholic Church in Evart. Flowers may be sent in her name or donations may be made to Osceola County Animal Shelter (231-832-5790) to help a pet in her memory. Condolences may be left online by clicking the Tribute Wall tab on Shirl’s page at www.coreyfuneralhome.com.